In The Good and Beautiful Life, author James Bryan Smith writes: ” Joy. Gratitude. Thanksgiving. Grace. These are kingdom words. When we live with God in his kingdom, we begin to love our life. ” He continues to make his point by quoting Rob Bell: “Gratitude is so central to the life God made us for. Until we can center ourselves on what we do have, on what God has given us, on the life we do get to live, we will constantly be looking for another life.” Dr. Smith ends his argument and paragraph by saying, “Lust is really about spiritual hunger for God and his kingdom. Therefore our sexual problems are resolved when we enroll as Jesus’ apprentices in his glorious kingdom.”
I wonder how enriched my marriage would be, if I determined to be grateful for the strengths my husband has, rather than long for the strengths I think he lacks. I wonder how all my relationships would be, if I was grateful for who the people in my life are, rather than expecting them to meet my needs. I think about how happy I would be, if I trusted God to be the one who meets all my needs. This Thanksgiving season I am determined to quit lusting after another life and praise God for all aspects of this life he has given me.